I have 20K subscribers!
I’ll be starting the Q&A celebrating my 20K subscribers
I think I have to film this while looking at my phone
And please excuse the sound as it might ring
I’ll be answering the questions that was asked the most
When are you planning to get married?
This was one of the most asked questions as well
I am thinking around the year after the next,
Sometime around May when it’s warm
So around May 2023, I’ll be 29 by then
Youngbbang who’s 3 years older would be 31
Wait is he 32
(What’s with the reaction)
He’d be 32
It seems like you do a lot of shopping, how to store your clothes? This was also asked a lot
I think for me it’s hard to wear the same clothes over again
As a YouTuber
I want to show you guys new clothes every time and it's another reason why I buy a lot of clothes
With the clothes that I don’t wear anymore I would give it to my friends and families
or even family friends
But recently I’m planning to open a Flea market
I have some new clothes or clothes I only wore once; I want to sell them at a very low price to you guys
And with the profit I want to give it to a charity in Duris’ and my name
I did pack some clothes already, and it was a lot than I expected
Well, that is my plan at the moment but it might get postponed in regards the Covid situation
You guys also asked a lot about my profit from YouTube
But with the profit, it doesn’t only include myself
But my company and the advertising company
So, I think it would be hard for me to answer that
I’m sorry
What is your mthly expense? Do you invest your monies?
With my mthly expense, I don’t have a specific fixed amount on food or clothing
But roughly I think I spent around 3~40% from my income
Including my fixed expenses, it would be around 40%
And I save the rest of 60%
You guys also asked if I did any investments
I’m not that interested in that area nor am I good at it
So Youngbbang is helping me out in that area
I don’t have any specific installment saving accounts I just save them on my saving accounts instead
What is your favorite hairstyle?
Um..I think I liked my hair when it was this long
With big curls
I would say that was one of the prettiest style
I do think mid length looks good as well but I’m feeling long hair these days
Are you ever thinking of going back to Cheongju?
I don’t think things I want to do in life needs to be done in Seoul
So I’m thinking of going back
Sometime next year around June during summer is when I’m planning to go back
What do you do with your stress from human relations?
To be honest I had those moments when I would stress over that
I think I explained it on my previous Q&A video
And I don’t think my answer have changed
In my opinion I think there are reasons on why it’s hard
it’s either your propensity doesn’t match that person or there are no respect
It's when it lacks understanding as well and it seems like once you start clashing, you’ll keep on clashing with that person
I think I try to focus on people that has understanding and respect
And cherish the people that does the same
Also, I think there are times when you have to learn to let go
Not to try to keep everything but let things go
But I’m not saying it’s the right way but this is just how it is for me
Wonder what you looked like as a baby?
And with this I’ll add it here on the side
(Spacing out..)
(Shy.. Pigeon lady stle)
(Couldn't do peace even at this age)
(My sister)
So! this is how I grew
What is the best 3 things you did in life?
There are a lot of things that I wish I could have done better and not sure if it would be any much of a help
But personally first would be starting a YouTube channel
And second would be graduating from college
And the third would be um.. meeting Youngbbang
I didn’t do much but I think this would be my top 3
First, starting my YouTube channel
I did start without putting much thought to it but through it I came across so many good people
And thanks to YouTube, it helped me grow as a person
I film myself in my daily life for the channel
And because of that it helped me see myself in different perspective
It showed me the things I need to change and the things I should give myself credit for
And receiving all these loves from you guys have changed my life
In a good way
I don’t think there’s anything bad about it
The only bad thing is just the people around are a bit uncomfortable
Them being exposed is something I consider and worry about
And my second one is graduating from college
I actually was one of the people who didn’t want to graduate from my college
I know I haven’t lived long enough but I look back and it was one of the best decision
After high school you go on study something you want
but honestly even if it’s something you don’t want, I think learning itself becomes a huge help in the future
And I think getting a diploma is one of the hardest things in life if you don’t do it now
I’m sure you can always get a diploma later in life but
To enjoy the college life in your early 20s with friends is something important as well at that stage
Those times where you had more time and less burdens in life I don't think I had so much time on my hand like back then
I think I learnt a lot from it
Not just in studies but in human relations as well College is like a small world on its own
I think it helped me in those areas as well
Met really good people during my collage years
I think I've made so many good friends during that time
And then and then..the third, meeting Youngbbang, I know this might sound cringing
But I don’t think I can ever leave this one out from my list
I think Youngbbang have taught me how to treat people
To be honest it was easy for me to receive love and I don’t think I knew how to give love
He has taught me a lot on how to give love
Because he has so many good people around him, it helped me to meet good people as well
They influenced me to be a better person and I think that has helped me grow as a person
I think learning from love is one of the best lessons in
Hope you all find yourselves a good partner Duris!
When you make plan, do you plan it in details or just the outline of it?
I am total outline person, I don’t think I ever plan it in details before
I do wish I could
Things you want to do the most when the Covid is over?
I will definitely go to Europe for a holiday
Is there any specific way you go on a diet?
As a person who hates doing cardio, I think I lose weight when I do some cardio
Because normally, I really don’t do it
The most effective one was reducing soups and drinking plenty of water
And when I get the feeling of fullness, I fill my stomach up to 80% and avoid being overwhelmed from fullness is something I did to help lose some weight
Any words for college students who are lost in their way?
If you don’t know what you want in life at the moment try focusing on what is front of you
because it’s never too late to search what you want and what you are good at in life
My pronunciation is really bad today
How long are you planning to do YouTube?
I want to continue on doing for a long period of time
Even when I get married or even when I have a kid if my energy allows it
Have you ever thought about blogging?
I’m not good at writing
I even reply with short sentences. You know those bloggers who write long logs, they are just amazing
There is no way I can do that
So, no I don’t think I can start blogging
Maybe with photos but with words no
Doesn’t Youngbbang get jealous when you hang out with guy friends?
There are a lot of questions regarding Youngbbang
I think we respect each other
Like with my guy friends we are not that kind of.. goodness I hate just thinking it about it
We’re friends with no feelings like that
We’ve been friends for a long time so
Your personal tips on getting over the hardship from human relations?
I think I try the best I can in the situation I am in,
I tend to not see the people who doesn’t even meet the basic respect
Back in the days I had trouble managing people but now I am clearer on who I want in my life
What changed in your body from consistent workout?
I feel like the structure of the clothing fits so much better and my basic strength
I don’t get easily tired
I don’t know if it’s because of my metabolism has gone faster ut I don’t feel like I gain as much compare to the amount I eat
Do you have any hobbies?
I really don’t have any hobbies
Um.. If I had to really choose, watching movies
I think I enjoy watching movies but I don’t think I have any other particular hobbies
Oh, that is why for my new hobby I want to try tennis with Youngbbang
What made you join the gym?
Last year when I was getting ready to graduate and enter the workforce I’ve ate a lot of late-night snacks
So it really made me gain some weight
I was doing nothing but sitting down and tried to get my work done
I hit my highest weight
I thought about joining the gym at the same time when I get a job
I wanted to be more active than before is the reason why I joined the gym
I think I wanted to be more healthy
What did you do during your leave when you were at collage?
When I took my leave, I did mostly part-time jobs
Worked at café, pub and a place called wonder place
I think I did various type of work during that time
That was the time when I was trying to figure out who I am and what I want
But still needed money so I started parttime jobs
Even till then I didn’t want to go back and do my studies
but during that time it made me realize there is nothing particular that I wanted to do
nor I had the confidence to do it alone
And by that time my friends were getting ready to graduate and preparing for the workforce It made me nervous
I was using up most of my leaves as well
It made me realize that there really was nothing I could do alone
And by that time, my desire to go back to school was getting strong
So that is why I went back
Half from nervousness and half from really wanting to learn
And I’m glad I went back that time
I see that you have some expensive clothes, how do you look after them? Is there personal tips or routines you could share
I got a little flustered after receiving this question
because I really don’t do anything to it
I didn’t know if I should do this question but because it had so many likes I did
In conclusion there’s nothing I do anything special to it
What were you’re mindset during collage years?
Let’s meet half way?
Let’s just graduate?
To be honest my only goal was to just graduate
Your most satisfying procedure done on your face?
I personally really enjoy cosmetic procedures
So, the most satisfying one was this ‘Inmode lifting’ (v-shape lifting procedure)
I realized that through the lens my jaws were not as sharp as it uses to be
And wanted to sharpen this area a bit more so I got myself Inmode lifting
It did not hurt even a bit and it looked great after it
I got it done twice in total
Around the whole face
Especially this area, I'm so satisfied
The most important thing when dating?
I think I have few things
Before being some else’s lover
For example if it was me, Hanwoori’s life existed before the relationship
I think it’s important to respect each other’s personal life even if you are in a relationship
I don’t think this is about the partner but within myself
I think there should be things in life where you can do it alone without relying on your partner
Something you can achieve all alone
I think I’m just that type who doesn’t like to rely on people
I know it’s great to live along with each other but I think you need to know how to live your own life as well
You have to love yourself before loving others
If you can’t do things on your own, and you tend to rely on others and I think it would make them either uncomfortable or stressed
I think having self-time is important
Any recommendation perfumes?
Lately I’ve been enjoying my Creed Aventus for her
And also, Aesop’s Rozu is something I really enjoy
These two are most used perfumes at the moment
And I also enjoy Lush’s 1000 kisses deep
I like to stray it before bed or just lightly
I think I enjoy my scent a bit woody with a hint of muskiness
I think I also enjoy citrus scent as well
What is your final goal?
A final goal? I don’t usually do things with the feeling of end or ultimate
I try to do the best I can everyday, I do wish that I can reach all the goals I have made for next year or the year after that
But after that I guess I’ll make new goals when I get there
I think I tend to have small goals at a time
So, my final goal would be, is to be healthy, and that all my loved ones are healthy And to be able to live a life without lacking too much
Does it make you uncomfortable when people notice you in the streets?
With this, it doesn’t make me uncomfortable what so ever but the opposite to be honest
It’s amazing to see in real time not like in the comments
They all come over with so much respect and I appreciate it so much
Because I know how hard that can be
So, it’s just amazing when you guys come over and say hi
So, you guys don’t need to worry at all
Because I love it
The best purchase?
The best purchase...
First, I would say this Dentiste toothpaste, this is one my favorite toothpaste
It prevents bad breath and give your mouth feeling fresh
And my second item is the Crocs fur-sure, this is something I consider good purchase
I'm wearing it well!
And my third item is, my computer
I used the life out of this desktop
I think I gave around $1500 and it was a huge sum of money for me at the time
But with that computer I graduated from college, Edited my YouTube videos for about a year
The only negative thing is, because I want to edit my videos when I am round and about but it’s shame I can’t
And that is why I got myself a MacBook. Hopefully it arrives soon
How do you keep your friendship so strong for this long?
I could be doing it wrong
But I have so much friends that I click with
I just tell out of blue that I miss them, send them hearts. Since young, I think I liked to give people gifts
We would share gifts, If I give my friends gifts they would also do the same
Even if it's something really small like a lollypop
I find that's something really important
A genuine message, to not lose contact as well is something I would say helps build friendship strong
I think these are some of the ways that help me keep friendship strong
How do you overcome being depressed?
I have the personality where I don’t linger too much on the past
The past is past and I'll do what I can at this moment
I tend to tell myself this to not linger too much on the past
I had those moments when I felt like I had no one around me
I was physically tired as well
With all those combinations I did feel quite depressed that time
I realized once you start overthinking it won’t end
I’ve learnt to not over think alone and think it lightly
Whatever it may be, you have to physically change something not just think about it
If I act more productively, I felt like it helped me feel better
And I think it’s important to open up to your loved ones is something I found helping
It’s good to cry with your emotions but I also think it’s important brush yourself and get up
I’m sure you all will have better days coming
For people who wants to know my MBTI
My MBTI is ENTP
I heard that ENTP likes to object and debate on other's opinions
So I was wondering what do you when your opinion differs with others?
I did heard that ENTP likes to object
And likes to debate as well but I don't think that's me
Maybe not totally but not as much
I don’t try to change someone else’s opinions because it differs from mine
I think I need to respect other’s opinions and if what they are saying is right and logical then yes, I need to agree with them
I don’t go try to change someone else’s opinion
I let that go as everyone has their own opinions
I guess I don’t even have any energy for that
Try to just let it pass
But the question mark is always there though
Isn’t it hard to work two jobs at the same time?
This question was asked a lot before I left my job
Also, what moves you to work?
I think during this time, it was your comments and likes that gave me energy to work
During this time, I would try to edit around the weekdays
but would always edit a full day on the weekend
But now I look at it, it’s crazy how I actually achieved that
But it was quite satisfying as well
What you do on your day off?
I usually go out
I think on my day off I would hang out with Youngbbang
I’m defiantly an extrovert
I don’t stay still
I sleep when I sleep and watch tv or YouTube when I eat
And the rest I would either edit my videos or spend time with Youngbbang
For me that’s what I call a day off
Are you going to do another closest vlog?
Definitely!
As now I have more time, I want to either do closest Vlog or lookbooks
You are in a long distant relationship with Youngbbang, how many times do you guys see each other?
Lately.. When I was working, Youngbbang would come see me once on the weekdays while I would go see him on the weekends
I think we still do that
As I still do have other stuff to do When Youngbbang come see me, I would go down and stay there on the weekend
It’s really not a long-distance relationship
If it’s doesn't offend you what is your height and weight?
I think I’m around 165cm tall
And I weight around 52kg
Are there any procedures you continuously follow?
I haven’t been available to go see the demonologist for a while now
But I’m thinking of going back again
But I’ve been doing my Inmode procedures as well as Botox on my jawline
And other things I want to try is getting a massage like in this area
Or my lower body
What do you do to de-stress?
See nice things, eat nice things
And shopping
I’m really simple, I de-stress when I do things like that
Are your mood swings bad?
I think I’m quite calm
Tend to not take things to personally
It makes me feel better if I think that way
What is your blood type?
I am type A
If it’s not much a trouble, how do you guys in reality manage your cost of dating?
With this back in the time? When I was still in college, I didn’t have much income
And thanks to Youngbbang he would spend majority of the cost
But now when Youngbbang gets the bill I’ll grab the bill the next time We have the whole who pays the first competition
So, I try to pay fast as I could
As I have received so much from him, I really appreciate him
How do you and Youngbbang make up after a fight?
We don’t really fight that much So, making up is still quite awkward for us
Youngbbang is the type who doesn’t talk when he’s angry
After taking some time alone It would most likely be me who tries to communicate
But seriously we don’t fight that much We try to communicate as much
But I know Youngbbang tries hard
When are you happiest?
Well for me it would be to see beautiful things
and eat good food with my families, and when I do something for my parents
They didn’t have much opportunities to travel So, I took them on a trip recently
And it made me really happy to see how happy they looked
To give them experiences that they never had the chance is something that brings me happiness
And going to new places with Youngbbang is another one
Guys~
So that was my Q&A to celebrate my 20K subscribers
And at this very moment while I’m filming this it’s already 24K of Duries who are subscribing to my channel
Thank you so much guys
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