0 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.025 The situation/reason for having a blind date 1 00:00:03.025 --> 00:00:05.025 When you have nothing to say 2 00:00:05.025 --> 00:00:06.375 (Immersive reenactment 1) 3 00:00:06.375 --> 00:00:08.275 The preferred blind date look according to the guys 4 00:00:08.275 --> 00:00:11.875 (not sponsored) Two must-haves on a blind date 5 00:00:11.875 --> 00:00:13.025 So excited 6 00:00:13.625 --> 00:00:17.725 Just don't say this word 7 00:00:20.125 --> 00:00:20.875 Everyone~ 8 00:00:20.875 --> 00:00:22.375 (Feeling downhearted) Hello~ 9 00:00:22.825 --> 00:00:25.675 Christine, who has been on over 100 blind dates 10 00:00:25.675 --> 00:00:30.625 Increasing the success rate of blind dates by 200% 11 00:00:30.625 --> 00:00:33.425 (Went out without much thought, analyzing what points were good) Reflecting on 100 blind dates 12 00:00:33.875 --> 00:00:36.375 [Thinking about it every night] Each night, one thing comes to mind 13 00:00:36.375 --> 00:00:38.426 (Christine gaining weight) When reaching REM sleep, one by one 14 00:00:38.426 --> 00:00:40.476 [A person who finds blind dates fun] Honestly, blind dates are fun 15 00:00:41.326 --> 00:00:44.626 It's a bit embarrassing to say this myself, but the success rate is 16 00:00:44.626 --> 00:00:45.826 Oh, please, stop, really~ 17 00:00:45.826 --> 00:00:47.326 All the socially awkward ones gather around 18 00:00:47.326 --> 00:00:50.626 [All those with blind date phobia gather] I also want to be more natural in blind dates 19 00:00:50.626 --> 00:00:55.926 [Q: I want to talk naturally and comfortably in blind dates] I want to talk comfortably, but it's not going well, for those of you who have this concern 20 00:00:55.926 --> 00:01:00.476 [For Mr. Youngcheol, Mr. Kwangsoo, Ms. Youngja, Ms. Youngsuk...] There are a lot of men like Mr. Youngcheol, Mr. Kwangsoo, etc. to watch 21 00:01:00.476 --> 00:01:01.976 I'll talk about it quickly 22 00:01:01.976 --> 00:01:05.226 [Not the trivial things like nail dirt, nose hair, beard] The obvious things other blind date videos talk about 23 00:01:05.226 --> 00:01:10.076 I won't say the obvious things like clean your nails, manage your hair 24 00:01:10.076 --> 00:01:14.076 (You'll all take care of it neatly) I think all of you will take care of those things yourselves 25 00:01:14.076 --> 00:01:17.976 (A room dweller) Our level is now Heart Signal 26 00:01:17.976 --> 00:01:20.626 [Objective] The goal of this video is two main things 27 00:01:20.626 --> 00:01:24.376 [1. Continue the conversation naturally] Being likable in a blind date but also being myself 28 00:01:24.376 --> 00:01:25.676 [ Real solution when you have nothing to say] How to become a bit more comfortable 29 00:01:25.676 --> 00:01:28.426 (Start of immersion) How to continue the conversation naturally 30 00:01:28.726 --> 00:01:33.726 [2. Top-tier blind date cheat key] Second, how to unleash my charm by 200% 31 00:01:34.326 --> 00:01:40.676 [1. The first 3 seconds, greet with a smile] The first impression is decided within the first 3 seconds. Greet with a smile 32 00:01:41.326 --> 00:01:45.926 (According to the guys) This is something that friends who became friends after meeting on a blind date all said 33 00:01:45.926 --> 00:01:48.176 All of those friends said the same thing 34 00:01:48.176 --> 00:01:52.577 [The first 3 seconds decide if you can see this person as a potential partner] There's actually this 3-second first impression 35 00:01:52.577 --> 00:01:55.977 Right when you first see their face, make eye contact and greet 36 00:01:55.977 --> 00:02:00.427 [The first 3 seconds = the time when physical criteria are decided] Then the guy scans you 37 00:02:00.427 --> 00:02:02.127 Even if their eyeballs aren't rolling 38 00:02:02.127 --> 00:02:06.627 (I was surprised because I'm not the type whose first appearance lasts till the end) The decision is made. The impression of that person, whether that person could be my woman 39 00:02:06.627 --> 00:02:10.477 They have their own standards. It's just decided 40 00:02:11.277 --> 00:02:16.377 [The expression in the first 3 seconds = the first impression] The facial expression in the first 3 seconds is so important because even in Heart Signal 41 00:02:16.377 --> 00:02:19.677 When 'Heart Signal' participants enter one by one, it's the timing 42 00:02:19.677 --> 00:02:21.927 Bright and pretty, smiling as they come in for those 3 seconds 43 00:02:21.927 --> 00:02:23.577 (Even the girls are charmed) 44 00:02:23.577 --> 00:02:26.477 [The reason why the first appearance is shot close-up in love shows] The person's expression is close-up, right 45 00:02:26.477 --> 00:02:29.227 But they come in smiling so brightly 46 00:02:29.227 --> 00:02:33.127 [Practical application] When you just enter the restaurant and that person is there and you say hello 47 00:02:33.127 --> 00:02:35.877 [Even if you're shy, look into their eyes and greet with a smile] Even if you feel embarrassed and nervous 48 00:02:35.877 --> 00:02:38.027 (No need for a demonstration) Don't say hello with a blank expression 49 00:02:38.027 --> 00:02:40.677 (Start of immersion) Say hello brightly, right? 50 00:02:40.677 --> 00:02:41.977 (Cold self-objectification) That was not very nice just now 51 00:02:41.977 --> 00:02:45.577 [The part you'll worry about the most] The second part you'll probably worry about the most is 52 00:02:45.577 --> 00:02:48.277 when you have nothing to say 53 00:02:48.277 --> 00:02:53.577 [Please tell me the question list!] Destiny(Subscriber) asked me to tell her the question list. From there 54 00:02:53.577 --> 00:02:56.777 "Ah! I would be needed!" That's what I thought 55 00:02:56.777 --> 00:02:59.627 [Stop going for the cliché blind date question list!] Thinking about what to talk about when you meet this person 56 00:02:59.627 --> 00:03:03.227 starting with 'What do you do on weekends, what are your hobbies?' and so on 57 00:03:03.227 --> 00:03:05.628 You're going to look at these questions and go, but stop that 58 00:03:05.628 --> 00:03:12.528 ["What's the next question?" begins] This is where the nervousness, awkwardness, and artificiality start 59 00:03:12.528 --> 00:03:14.428 [What's a successful blind date?] What do you think a successful blind date is? 60 00:03:14.428 --> 00:03:20.528 [Comfortable back and forth] A good atmosphere and a comfortable back and forth make a successful blind date 61 00:03:21.578 --> 00:03:23.428 [Interview style, absolutely not recommended] But going in with an interview style, memorizing each question one by one 62 00:03:23.428 --> 00:03:25.178 so when the conversation with this person ends 63 00:03:25.178 --> 00:03:27.728 you react appropriately and then I ask the next question 64 00:03:27.728 --> 00:03:31.878 [Not fun!] That's not it, the moment you do this, it really breaks 65 00:03:31.878 --> 00:03:37.628 Just think about a few of the most important things when meeting a potential partner! 66 00:03:37.628 --> 00:03:41.028 [Conflict resolution style, whether they are avoidant, what kind of spending they enjoy the most] You don't need to look these up or list them 67 00:03:41.028 --> 00:03:45.578 just casually ask a few things after the conversation ends 68 00:03:45.878 --> 00:03:48.178 [Not curious about anything] What to talk about with this person when you have nothing to say, you might not be curious about someone you just met 69 00:03:48.178 --> 00:03:49.828 it's possible not to be curious 70 00:03:49.828 --> 00:03:53.028 [Solution 1 - Follow-up questions] You can do this with follow-up questions. What you do is 71 00:03:53.028 --> 00:03:55.378 you have to ask questions that lead to more questions 72 00:03:55.378 --> 00:04:00.978 [Key point] You keep the conversation flowing naturally on one topic 73 00:04:00.978 --> 00:04:13.478 ex) Weekend - Pilates - Have you tried it? - No, but I've heard it's good - Back TMI 74 00:04:13.478 --> 00:04:22.279 ex) Hiking - Which mountain did you like the most? - When did you go recently? - Have you been there? 75 00:04:22.279 --> 00:04:25.779 [Just like Sang-cheol & Ok-soon endlessly talking about 'photos'] You have to catch a keyword with a keyword 76 00:04:25.779 --> 00:04:29.329 Then asking questions becomes a seamless conversation 77 00:04:29.329 --> 00:04:31.429 That's how you get a back-and-forth dialogue 78 00:04:31.429 --> 00:04:34.829 One conversation ends and then the next question 79 00:04:34.829 --> 00:04:36.729 (A couple that keeps talking about 'photos' and 'cafes' / Even with many questions, a couple that doesn't have a back-and-forth) The conversation ends and then the next question, 80 00:04:36.729 --> 00:04:39.829 You can't see it as back-and-forth, that's an interview 81 00:04:39.829 --> 00:04:42.279 So I'm saying this from the I’m SOLO where the participants all never had dated anyone 82 00:04:42.279 --> 00:04:46.429 [Don't ever ask this (1)] There's one question I hope you never ask. That is 83 00:04:46.429 --> 00:04:50.179 Do you have any questions for me, Ok-soon? Anything you wanted to ask? This 84 00:04:51.229 --> 00:04:55.979 [Both realize there are no questions from the other side] It means the other person isn't asking questions, and that means they're not 85 00:04:55.979 --> 00:05:00.129 [Question = Interest = Curiosity] curious about me. At that moment, the other person starts thinking 86 00:05:00.129 --> 00:05:03.779 "What should I ask?" and the mind starts working artificially 87 00:05:03.779 --> 00:05:10.529 [A natural flow of conversation like a festival of words for just the two of you] But if you have a follow-up question conversation that leads on from one topic to another 88 00:05:10.529 --> 00:05:13.279 you don't have to think artificially 89 00:05:13.979 --> 00:05:16.129 It just flows naturally 90 00:05:16.879 --> 00:05:20.829 [What if the back-and-forth doesn't happen?] If the back-and-forth doesn't come, the other person just 91 00:05:20.829 --> 00:05:23.779 makes you run out of things to say no matter how much you throw keywords at them 92 00:05:23.779 --> 00:05:26.129 then what do you do in this situation 93 00:05:26.129 --> 00:05:27.829 There's another method here 94 00:05:27.829 --> 00:05:33.530 [Don't just keep asking and talking on one side] If only one side is talking, it's not really a conversation 95 00:05:33.530 --> 00:05:35.480 It's just talking to yourself so 96 00:05:35.480 --> 00:05:38.480 (You've done enough) Try not talking for a moment 97 00:05:38.480 --> 00:05:43.330 I've asked enough, about 30% to 50% 98 00:05:43.330 --> 00:05:47.480 But the other person keeps not asking questions, it seems like they're not curious about me 99 00:05:47.480 --> 00:05:50.930 then endure that silence. Why should I keep talking? 100 00:05:50.930 --> 00:05:58.430 [Conclusion] It's 200 times better to create a blank space than to keep asking if there are no questions 101 00:05:58.880 --> 00:06:02.480 [Knowing how to throw the ball to the other person prevents you from being a stay-at-home MC] As nervous you are, the other person might be as well 102 00:06:02.480 --> 00:06:05.980 So it's not good to keep asking forcibly if they don’t have any questions 103 00:06:06.580 --> 00:06:09.380 Just asking questions one-sidedly is also a nope; it skews the conversation one way 104 00:06:09.380 --> 00:06:14.480 So I ask questions and do a follow-up, but if the conversation still gets cut off 105 00:06:14.480 --> 00:06:16.580 then endure the silence 106 00:06:16.580 --> 00:06:19.480 I understand this is how you carry on conversations 107 00:06:19.480 --> 00:06:21.530 but what do you talk about in the beginning? 108 00:06:21.780 --> 00:06:26.080 Focus on the main point for those who find themselves blanking, I have a solution for you 109 00:06:26.830 --> 00:06:33.230 [1. Use the matchmaker as a topic] Talk about a mutual friend because we have nothing in common 110 00:06:33.430 --> 00:06:38.080 [Brief introduction deciding when to meet, I usually do this] Personally, I don't like chatting daily on KakaoTalk before meeting up 111 00:06:38.080 --> 00:06:41.730 [It’s neat like this] It's better to just say hello, have a brief talk, then set up a time to meet 112 00:06:41.730 --> 00:06:43.980 And it's better not to contact each other in the meantime 113 00:06:43.980 --> 00:06:47.281 Because really, all we may know about each other is the mutual friend 114 00:06:47.281 --> 00:06:51.181 [*Yuna: our mutual friend] If you're introduced by a friend named Yuna, there's nothing to talk about 115 00:06:51.181 --> 00:06:55.181 Our only common ground is Yuna, 116 00:06:55.181 --> 00:06:59.081 so you could start with, 'I heard from Yuna that you like exercise~' 117 00:06:59.081 --> 00:07:01.581 Go about it naturally like that 118 00:07:02.331 --> 00:07:03.931 It's more natural than just asking out of the blue, 'Do you like exercise?' 119 00:07:03.931 --> 00:07:08.231 [Using information heard from Yuna to ask questions] like 'I heard from Yuna, ...' can lead to a conversation 120 00:07:08.231 --> 00:07:11.381 'How long have you been friends with Yuna?' and similar questions 121 00:07:11.381 --> 00:07:13.281 [Asking questions about them that has Yuna mixed in] Ask questions like this to naturally continue the conversation 122 00:07:13.281 --> 00:07:16.231 The second method is when there's no Yuna 123 00:07:16.231 --> 00:07:20.781 [If there's no mutual friend] For a third-party introduction 124 00:07:20.781 --> 00:07:22.531 You could talk like this 125 00:07:22.531 --> 00:07:25.081 (Fate believer in blind dates) Blind dates are also a kind of fate, so 126 00:07:25.081 --> 00:07:28.281 [2. How I came to have this blind date setup] Why I decided to take this introduction at this timing 127 00:07:28.281 --> 00:07:33.281 Talking about the situation I was in at that time is really natural and honest 128 00:07:33.281 --> 00:07:35.331 Applying it practically, just casually mention 129 00:07:35.331 --> 00:07:41.231 [Explain the situation that gave you the right timing!] A situation like 'I've come back from a working holiday or study abroad right before enrolling in this semester 130 00:07:41.231 --> 00:07:47.531 [*Additional effect: Assign meaning to the timing 1] or, 'I thought now before a job start is when I have the most free time to accept an introduction' 131 00:07:47.531 --> 00:07:52.131 ['Oh, you're free right now too? Same here...'] It's natural. Why I decided to accept this introduction when we first met 132 00:07:52.131 --> 00:07:56.581 ['Maybe I should go on a blind date?'] In what circumstances I decided to give it a try 133 00:07:56.581 --> 00:07:59.781 ['Introduce me to someone like this~'] There was a moment when I told a friend I'd like to meet someone someday, 134 00:07:59.781 --> 00:08:02.132 and they remembered and introduced me 135 00:08:02.132 --> 00:08:04.332 In this manner, it's very very natural, 136 00:08:04.332 --> 00:08:05.832 and there is so much to talk about 137 00:08:05.832 --> 00:08:08.032 And the third, really 138 00:08:08.032 --> 00:08:13.932 [Any other methods?] If all of the above is not suitable, and I really don’t want to talk about any of it, then, we eat, right? 139 00:08:14.132 --> 00:08:16.332 [3. Talk about the food] Talk about the food. If it’s an Italian restaurant 140 00:08:16.332 --> 00:08:18.232 Then ask, 'Do you like Italian restaurants?' 141 00:08:18.232 --> 00:08:24.682 Whether they like Italian, if they've been here before, this tastes good, etc 142 00:08:24.982 --> 00:08:27.582 Don't just say these (2) 143 00:08:27.582 --> 00:08:33.132 Someone might want to say they have a flexible personality as their strength 144 00:08:33.132 --> 00:08:35.082 But I heard this kind of statement for the first time 145 00:08:35.082 --> 00:08:39.982 It was my first time hearing that even with the 100 blind dates I had but it stayed in me because 146 00:08:39.982 --> 00:08:43.832 [Intent understood but the heart had a reaction...] It seems like the phrase didn't really work on me 147 00:08:43.832 --> 00:08:47.182 'I can get along with anyone' 148 00:08:47.182 --> 00:08:49.932 That might really be that person's personality 149 00:08:49.932 --> 00:08:55.082 And it could be that person talking about their amiable personality 150 00:08:55.082 --> 00:08:57.882 So for someone, it might be a strength, but 151 00:08:57.882 --> 00:09:03.282 the first thought that came to my mind was 'So it doesn’t have to be me then' That's what I thought 152 00:09:03.282 --> 00:09:06.832 I guess he'd be fine to meet some other ordinary girl~! 153 00:09:06.832 --> 00:09:08.182 (From a not-so-ordinary person) That thought came to my mind right away 154 00:09:08.182 --> 00:09:10.982 [How to show interest then..?] Sometimes you want to express a bit that 'I like you' 155 00:09:10.982 --> 00:09:12.732 After eating and going to a cafe, 156 00:09:12.732 --> 00:09:15.733 there's this phrase, 'Time flies today,' right? 157 00:09:15.733 --> 00:09:19.333 [A sign of enjoyment without pressure, in a pleasant way] What does it mean when time flies? It means the conversation is fun 158 00:09:19.583 --> 00:09:25.033 [Charm boost 200% UP cheat key] Let's get into the cheat key, focus! 159 00:09:25.033 --> 00:09:28.933 Suzy uses her teeth, Hong Yoon-hwa did this, but 160 00:09:28.933 --> 00:09:32.483 I'll tell you a cheat key that can actually be used in real life 161 00:09:32.483 --> 00:09:34.233 The first one is, 162 00:09:34.233 --> 00:09:36.283 '3 seconds of eye contact' 163 00:09:36.283 --> 00:09:41.133 Everyone, eye contact is really more effective than you think 164 00:09:41.133 --> 00:09:44.233 The point is exactly '3 seconds.' 165 00:09:44.233 --> 00:09:46.933 [*Side effects double after 3 seconds] Eye contact without blinking for 5-6 seconds can be a bit overwhelming 166 00:09:46.933 --> 00:09:50.333 (This is not it) 167 00:09:50.333 --> 00:09:59.133 Absolutely no misunderstanding / Prevent side effects in advance 168 00:09:59.133 --> 00:10:05.983 *Not with a blank expression, and not with moving mouth while making eye contact 169 00:10:06.583 --> 00:10:07.983 Just while having a conversation 170 00:10:07.983 --> 00:10:11.083 (Unnecessary demonstration 1) 171 00:10:11.083 --> 00:10:14.183 [@Destiny(Subscriber) : Is this right, sis?] Do you know what I mean? 172 00:10:14.183 --> 00:10:15.683 But really, this thing~ 173 00:10:15.683 --> 00:10:17.183 makes me so excited 174 00:10:18.183 --> 00:10:20.683 No, really, it's not just my opinion 175 00:10:20.683 --> 00:10:22.783 I heard it later. They really felt thrilled 176 00:10:22.783 --> 00:10:25.333 (Just trust me once) I'm naturally good at eye contact, 177 00:10:25.333 --> 00:10:28.784 If I really like someone, I listen to their story and 178 00:10:28.784 --> 00:10:30.534 eye contact naturally happens 179 00:10:31.034 --> 00:10:32.284 It makes people feel excited 180 00:10:32.284 --> 00:10:36.984 [*Point: Eye contact that shows I'm listening to your words] When a chatty and noisy person suddenly becomes quiet, 181 00:10:38.234 --> 00:10:39.784 (Here we go again) 182 00:10:39.784 --> 00:10:42.184 then the other person will also stare at me 183 00:10:42.184 --> 00:10:44.984 Then they become shy and can't open their eyes 184 00:10:44.984 --> 00:10:46.434 Right, Kwang-soo? Yeong-cheol, am I right or not~! 185 00:10:46.434 --> 00:10:51.634 [Top-level cheat key] The second cheat key is actually the one at the top, 186 00:10:51.634 --> 00:10:54.634 because it's so obvious that it can't be called a cheat key 187 00:10:54.634 --> 00:10:58.684 [Empathy = Reaction] Just a little bit of good reaction, 188 00:10:58.684 --> 00:11:03.284 [Good reaction, smiling brightly during the conversation] Smiling brightly, empathizing, and having a good conversation flow. That's just a pass 189 00:11:03.284 --> 00:11:09.684 [According to men, more girls make them feel uncomfortable than you'd think] More than you'd think, there are girls who don't react well and lack empathy 190 00:11:09.684 --> 00:11:12.184 Being blunt, honestly speaking, 191 00:11:12.184 --> 00:11:16.334 (Even if their natural personality is blunt, they can still be polite) There are many girls who think they are princesses 192 00:11:16.334 --> 00:11:19.984 So thirdly, what I've written is 'I am not a princess.' 193 00:11:19.984 --> 00:11:24.984 When people meet, what am I to just sit and listen to the talk, 194 00:11:24.984 --> 00:11:28.884 [From really cool and capable people around me, I often hear there are such counterparts..] Right, right, or 195 00:11:28.884 --> 00:11:31.634 (Taking the other person's time and effort for granted..) Not saying anything or not giving a reaction, 196 00:11:31.634 --> 00:11:33.584 (Though they might have gone with good intentions) Would that make for an enjoyable conversation? 197 00:11:34.134 --> 00:11:38.284 [If you're nervous and trembling!] Being frozen from nervousness and trembling, resulting in no reaction, 198 00:11:38.284 --> 00:11:40.885 is an unfortunate case, so I'm mentioning it, 199 00:11:42.735 --> 00:11:46.885 I asked on my Instagram story which blind date was the best, and that's what I pondered! 200 00:11:46.885 --> 00:11:49.785 For such questions, male subscriber Destiny 201 00:11:49.785 --> 00:11:52.635 [Not wanting much: "empathy"] The most common responses were reactions and empathy 202 00:11:52.635 --> 00:11:55.085 Just reacting well and showing empathy is really 203 00:11:55.085 --> 00:11:59.235 [*Not an excessive reaction, but a mannerly response to the other person] More than 80% of the time, the mood gets better 204 00:11:59.235 --> 00:12:04.435 (From experience) And there's no way the mood wouldn't be good if a girl smiles and reacts well 205 00:12:04.435 --> 00:12:09.785 [Apparently, there are many girls who don't even do this much] It's not about reacting like an audience member, but about smiling, answering 206 00:12:09.785 --> 00:12:13.285 and asking a question back if someone asks you one 207 00:12:13.285 --> 00:12:15.585 That's what reaction and empathy are about 208 00:12:15.585 --> 00:12:18.235 Not just saying "Oh, really?" and then saying what you want to say 209 00:12:18.235 --> 00:12:20.985 (Getting too involved again) "Really? That must have been fun" like that 210 00:12:21.635 --> 00:12:25.935 [Isn't that too hard? / That's amazing / Really funny / Oh, really?] Like this, all of this is empathy and reaction 211 00:12:26.285 --> 00:12:29.385 [A killer move, cheat code] Here's one cheat code: "smizing" (smiling with your eyes) 212 00:12:29.385 --> 00:12:34.335 (Same goes for men smizing) It's not because I smize a lot, it's just that when a person smiles 213 00:12:34.335 --> 00:12:36.935 [Smizing saves the nation] You really look bright and pretty 214 00:12:36.935 --> 00:12:40.635 People want to look pretty, right? That's when I smize 215 00:12:40.635 --> 00:12:44.735 [Viewer: What did I do to deserve this] "Ah, that's really funny" like this 216 00:12:44.735 --> 00:12:45.735 (I don't know what it is) You know what it is? 217 00:12:45.735 --> 00:12:46.985 Just laughing is 218 00:12:46.985 --> 00:12:52.885 'Just laughing' and 'smizing' 219 00:12:53.135 --> 00:12:56.486 Aren't they so different? They're really different 220 00:12:56.486 --> 00:12:59.686 [How do you smize?] Even those who say they can't smize can do it 221 00:12:59.686 --> 00:13:00.736 1. Squint your eyes (like Lee Myung-bak) 222 00:13:00.736 --> 00:13:02.536 2. Smile with your mouth (towards the ears) 223 00:13:03.886 --> 00:13:06.436 [*Caution on the gaze] You shouldn't look at the other person and smile 224 00:13:06.436 --> 00:13:08.236 (Otherwise, you'll really look like Lee Myung-bak) So what you do is 225 00:13:09.586 --> 00:13:11.386 Smizing angle: diagonal downwards 226 00:13:11.386 --> 00:13:13.836 (Getting too involved again 1) 227 00:13:17.586 --> 00:13:18.436 You have to smile like this 228 00:13:18.436 --> 00:13:22.436 Only the crescent moon technique that works from a downward diagonal angle 229 00:13:23.136 --> 00:13:26.086 Everyone, now the last appendix 230 00:13:26.086 --> 00:13:28.186 [Blind date outfit] What should I wear? And I 231 00:13:28.186 --> 00:13:29.986 [Essential items] I'll give you one more tip 232 00:13:29.986 --> 00:13:31.886 The most recommended outfit for a blind date is 233 00:13:31.886 --> 00:13:34.336 [What should I wear for a blind date?] (Top) White shirt or blouse 234 00:13:34.336 --> 00:13:36.386 (Bottom) Jeans or no lace, no floral pattern skirt 235 00:13:36.386 --> 00:13:38.686 [I wore this dress the most] This isn't just my personal opinion, but also that of my male friends 236 00:13:38.686 --> 00:13:43.986 And the guys I became friends with on blind dates 237 00:13:43.986 --> 00:13:45.286 It seems like there's no strong preference 238 00:13:45.286 --> 00:13:47.536 Of course, there are those who prefer skirts too 239 00:13:47.536 --> 00:13:52.236 [For those who like dresses, I also recommend a neat dress!] There are people with pretty legs. For those who still want to wear a skirt 240 00:13:52.236 --> 00:13:58.486 (According to the guys I've met) Many don't prefer floral patterns & excessive shoulder puffs 241 00:13:59.736 --> 00:14:02.086 (Just like I also wore the black puff dress I wanted to wear..) You can wear whatever you want 242 00:14:02.086 --> 00:14:04.086 I'm not the type to say that women have to be a certain way 243 00:14:04.086 --> 00:14:06.036 [I even went out wearing slippers... because I like slippers normally..] I really don't like that 244 00:14:06.036 --> 00:14:08.786 It's my principle that I'll wear what I want to wear 245 00:14:08.786 --> 00:14:12.487 ["To give you useful information"] If you're looking for advice for blind dating 246 00:14:12.487 --> 00:14:15.337 (They said ut's much prettier without the puff..) I also had a male friend who didn't like shoulder puffs 247 00:14:15.337 --> 00:14:19.137 It came up as we were talking about the styles of clothes we like 248 00:14:19.137 --> 00:14:22.237 (Floral patterns, too much frills) I have seen several men who don't like floral patterns 249 00:14:22.237 --> 00:14:26.087 [Simple yet sophisticated clothes are the prettiest, right?] Safely go with a white shirt and jeans or skirt underneath 250 00:14:26.087 --> 00:14:28.437 Just a neat skirt, this neatly 251 00:14:29.137 --> 00:14:30.887 No matter what clothes you wear, the most important thing.. 252 00:14:30.887 --> 00:14:33.387 Wrinkles noticeable to the extent that it's obvious that it was not ironed 253 00:14:33.387 --> 00:14:35.387 Pilling on knitwear, cardigans 254 00:14:35.387 --> 00:14:38.487 (Things that show if a person is neat) You can somewhat see a person's lifestyle, their living habits 255 00:14:38.487 --> 00:14:41.687 Since you can see whether it's clean or not, that's a bit 256 00:14:41.687 --> 00:14:44.137 [What should I take?] The second thing, really, I 257 00:14:44.137 --> 00:14:47.737 always carry two things in my bag when I go on blind dates 258 00:14:47.937 --> 00:14:50.187 [1. Breath freshener] I've used it all up now 259 00:14:50.187 --> 00:14:52.287 (Seems like I buy it every other week..) 260 00:14:52.287 --> 00:14:53.737 Right before meeting, after eating 261 00:14:53.737 --> 00:14:55.337 (Demonstrating unnecessarily) 262 00:14:55.337 --> 00:14:56.387 Just spray it three times 263 00:14:56.387 --> 00:14:59.387 Available for purchase at convenience stores, Olive Young, pharmacies 264 00:14:59.387 --> 00:15:03.737 [If you talk a lot, and go to a second round, the smell of saliva from the mouth is so bad] Because if the conversation goes well or you go to a second round, you can smell food from the mouth 265 00:15:03.737 --> 00:15:06.787 (Christine's real item) I always carry it with me, especially when I go on blind dates 266 00:15:06.987 --> 00:15:11.537 There was this guy on a blind date who, like me, carried breath freshner 267 00:15:11.537 --> 00:15:14.587 When I sprayed it, he said he also had it and sprayed some too 268 00:15:15.287 --> 00:15:18.537 (Affection 1) Truly, the affection level goes up 269 00:15:18.537 --> 00:15:23.138 (Since childhood, my sister said my mouth smelled like poop, so I'm sensitive) You can tell someone is considerate, a bit neat, from this 270 00:15:23.138 --> 00:15:27.638 (I've seen someone bring a toothbrush set dental floss...) I carry it too, but I really like it when the other person carries a breath freshener 271 00:15:27.638 --> 00:15:31.788 [2. Mini perfume] The second is mini perfume. They give you small ones, like samples 272 00:15:31.788 --> 00:15:35.488 [Mini perfumes given as samples when you buy perfume!] These are so good to carry in your bag 273 00:15:35.488 --> 00:15:38.788 [Perfumes available in small sizes!] There are these small perfumes. I've also used this up now 274 00:15:38.788 --> 00:15:42.788 I really always carry it in my bag when I go on blind dates. Why do I carry it 275 00:15:42.788 --> 00:15:46.138 (Just as much as I like people who smell good, I also wish I smelled good) By the time I leave work, including the time it takes to get there, the perfume is gone 276 00:15:46.138 --> 00:15:47.838 The perfume I carry has a subtle scent 277 00:15:47.838 --> 00:15:51.788 ['Chanel - Chance Eau Tendre' has a delicate cherry blossom scent, recommended for blind dates] If you reapply a too strong perfume, it's like suddenly having come back from the bathroom 278 00:15:51.788 --> 00:15:53.438 and it's like, 'Oh no, this happened' 279 00:15:53.438 --> 00:15:58.538 (I remember being a bit embarrassed because the 'Lady Dior' perfume I sprayed was too strong) Before going to the second round (I spray it on my armpits & on the top of my head) 280 00:15:59.488 --> 00:16:03.888 [Was this helpful~? (Hopeful)] I've shared all these blind date tips. How was it? 281 00:16:03.888 --> 00:16:07.438 (I’m curious) Please leave a comment on how this video was 282 00:16:07.438 --> 00:16:09.688 (No one asked for it) My last cheat key 283 00:16:09.688 --> 00:16:14.388 [@Destiny(Subscriber) : Let's turn it off] I'll wrap up, goodbye